{"id":55,"date":"2012-02-24T20:30:22","date_gmt":"2012-02-24T18:30:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.wordpress.com\/?p=55"},"modified":"2022-03-03T17:41:00","modified_gmt":"2022-03-03T15:41:00","slug":"iubirea-conjugala","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/?p=55","title":{"rendered":"Iubirea conjugal\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Obi\u0219nuiam \u00eentr-o vreme s\u0103 aseam\u0103n lumea cu un depozit, iar oamenii cu lichide a\u0219ezate in diferite recipiente \u00een rafturile depozitului, fiecare cu o consisten\u021b\u0103, aroma \u0219i v\u00e2scozitate diferit\u0103. Astfel, c\u0103s\u0103toria dintre doi oameni poate fi ilustrat\u0103 foarte plastic. Spre exemplu, c\u0103s\u0103toria civil\u0103 reprezint\u0103 mutarea celor doua recipiente cu lichid pe acelasi raft unul lang\u0103 cel\u0103lalt \u0219i schimbarea etichetelor, iar nunta este, \u00een schimb, amestecarea celor doua tipuri de lichid \u00een acela\u0219i recipient. Problemele apar atunci c\u00e2nd cele doua lichide refuz\u0103 s\u0103 se &#8222;amestece&#8221;, asemeni apei \u0219i uleiului.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-2923 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/borcane-300x225.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"279\" height=\"209\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/borcane-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/borcane.png 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 279px) 100vw, 279px\" \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Iubirea dintre so\u021b \u0219i so\u021bie este &#8222;c\u0103ldura&#8221; necesar\u0103 celor doua lichide pentru a putea deveni unul singur, pentru a se putea amesteca \u0219i s\u0103 formeze astfel \u00eempreuna o arom\u0103 \u0219i v\u00e2scozitate proprie lor. Refuzul lor de a face acest lucru reprezint\u0103 (\u00een mod individual) suma de dorin\u021be care nu includ fericirea celuilalt. C\u00e2nd unul din ei are o dorin\u021b\u0103 care contravine fericirii celuilalt, acest lucru duce la o \u00eenchistare emo\u021bional\u0103 din partea celui ce are acea reac\u021bie de refuz a dorin\u021bei partenerului de via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i astfel se \u00eenchide \u00een sine \u00eensu\u0219i c\u00e2te pu\u021bin (cu c\u00e2t mai multe astfel de dorin\u021be, cu at\u00e2t este mai accentuat\u0103 dificultatea celor doi de a deveni un cuplu&#8230; sau altfel spus s\u0103 se &#8222;amestece&#8221;).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Iubirea conjugal\u0103 adev\u0103rat\u0103 apare atunci c\u00e2nd fericirea unuia const\u0103 \u00een a-l face fericit pe cel\u0103lalt. Astfel, c\u00e2nd unul este fericit, sunt ferici\u021bi de fapt am\u00e2ndoi, ca \u0219i cum cei doi ar fi unul. \u00cen acest caz, dorin\u021ba celor doi de a fi \u00eempreun\u0103 nu este o simpl\u0103 dorin\u021b\u0103, ci efectul fericirii reciproce pe care \u0219i-l provoac\u0103 unul celuilalt.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ilustrare plastic\u0103 a iubirii conjugale.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2923,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,57],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-si-totusi-iubirea","category-speciale","post_format-post-format-standard"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/borcane.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=55"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2928,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55\/revisions\/2928"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2923"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=55"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=55"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=55"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}