{"id":178,"date":"2013-02-01T22:26:12","date_gmt":"2013-02-01T20:26:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.wordpress.com\/?p=178"},"modified":"2022-03-02T12:39:51","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T10:39:51","slug":"iubirea-de-sine-si-vina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/?p=178","title":{"rendered":"Iubirea de sine \u0219i vina"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Exist\u0103 c\u00e2teva neclarit\u0103\u021bi \u00een ce prive\u0219te cei doi termeni \u0219i a\u0219 dori s\u0103-i clarific pu\u021bin. Poate v\u0103 ajut\u0103 \u00een munca de rena\u0219tere a fericirii proprii. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Vina e pretutindeni unde exist\u0103 nemul\u021bumire. Dar chiar dac\u0103 am ar\u0103tat c\u0103 aceasta nu e bun\u0103 tot ne este greu s\u0103 ne descotorosim de ea. A\u0219a c\u0103 o lu\u0103m mai b\u0103be\u0219te. Atunci c\u00e2nd suntem nemul\u021bumi\u021bi &#8222;avem&#8221; un motiv s\u0103 fim astfel, iar atunci c\u00e2nd avem un motiv avem \u0219i un &#8222;vinovat&#8221;. \u0218i uite a\u0219a ajungem la momentul clasic \u00een care cineva sau ceva e vinovat pentru starea lucrurilor sau a st\u0103rilor noastre. E de la sine \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 n-am fost la or\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd Iisus ne-a &#8222;predat&#8221; teoria cu binecuv\u00e2nteaz\u0103-\u021bi du\u0219manul \u0219i deci nu \u0219tim s\u0103-l iert\u0103m pe cel vinovat. Dac\u0103 nu \u0219tim s\u0103-l iert\u0103m atunci este evident c\u0103 nici n-o s\u0103-l putem iubi, c\u0103 doar am lipsit \u0219i de la ora cu &#8222;iube\u0219te-\u021bi aproapele ca pe tine \u00eensu\u021bi \u0219i pe Dumnezeu mai presus de orice&#8221;. \u00cen acest moment \u00eens\u0103, iubirea de sine se transform\u0103 \u00een egoism. De ce? Fiindc\u0103 dac\u0103 vinovatul e \u00een afara noastr\u0103 o s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim superiori \u00een timp (lucru care pune toate priorit\u0103\u021bile noastre pe primul loc), iar dac\u0103 vina e \u00een noi atunci, neput\u00e2ndu-ne ierta \u0219i iubi, vom trece \u00een depresie \u0219i tot vom suferi (nu din prostie \u0219i ignoran\u021b\u0103 ca \u00een primul caz, ci doar din ignoran\u021b\u0103).<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2826 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/iubireadesine-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/iubireadesine-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/iubireadesine.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\u00cen diverse cazuri am observat c\u0103 se face o diferen\u021biere net\u0103 \u00eentre iubirea de sine \u0219i egoism \u0219i nu cred c\u0103 acest lucru e bun at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t nu reu\u0219im s\u0103-i iubim pe ceilal\u021bi cel pu\u021bin cu acea\u0219i m\u0103sur\u0103. S\u0103-i separi pe cei doi \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 dai ap\u0103 la moar\u0103 egoistului spun\u00e2ndu-i c\u0103 el de fapt se iube\u0219te pe sine \u0219i nu e egoist. Adic\u0103 s\u0103 schimbi practic doar cuvintele folosite, ca s\u0103 se simt\u0103 mai bine egoul.<\/p>\n<p>Iubirea aproapelui poate exista doar dac\u0103 ne putem iubim pe noi \u00een\u0219ine. Adic\u0103 s\u0103 ne putem ierta \u0219i binecuv\u00e2nta pe noi \u00een\u0219ine, lucru care poate ap\u0103rea atunci c\u00e2nd \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 noi suntem cauza pentru toate c\u00e2te ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 (adic\u0103 vinovatul vinova\u021bilor). Nu \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor Iisus indic\u0103 &#8222;ca \u0219i pe tine \u00eensu\u021bi&#8221;, deoarece acesta este primul pas \u00een \u00een\u021belegerea mecanismului din spatele egoismului (care este \u00een esen\u021b\u0103 opus iubirii). Deci da, iubirea de sine \u0219i egoismul nu sunt unul \u0219i acela\u0219i lucru pentru cel ce poate s\u0103 pun\u0103 interesele proprii mai prejos dec\u00e2t ale aproapelui s\u0103u. \u00cens\u0103, pentru cel ce nu reu\u0219e\u0219te acest lucru, cei doi termeni sunt identici!!!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Revenind la vin\u0103, dac\u0103 suntem \u00eenc\u0103 la stadiul de nevinovat atunci iubirea de sine nu poate s\u0103 existe, c\u0103ci starea de nevinov\u0103\u021bie duce la o stare de superioritate orgolioas\u0103 care amplific\u0103 egoismul din noi. Dac\u0103 am ajuns s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem \u0219i s\u0103 accept\u0103m faptul c\u0103 noi suntem vinova\u021bi pentru ceea ce tr\u0103im \u00een noi \u00een\u0219ine, atunci ne r\u0103m\u00e2ne doar s\u0103 ne iert\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 ne iubim, c\u0103ci iertarea anuleaz\u0103 starea de vinovat (transform\u00e2nd-o \u00een umilin\u021b\u0103) \u0219i face s\u0103 apar\u0103 mul\u021bumirea \u0219i recuno\u0219tin\u021ba pentru tot \u0219i deci implicit starea de fericire continu\u0103. Altfel spus, vina \u0219i iubirea de sine fac cas\u0103 bun\u0103 pentru cel ce le cunoa\u0219te.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despre iubirea de sine \u0219i c\u00e2t de asem\u0103n\u0103toare poate fi cu egoismul.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2826,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-178","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-si-totusi-iubirea"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/iubireadesine.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/178","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=178"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/178\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2828,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/178\/revisions\/2828"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2826"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=178"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=178"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=178"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}