{"id":164,"date":"2013-01-18T00:50:24","date_gmt":"2013-01-17T22:50:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.wordpress.com\/?p=164"},"modified":"2022-03-02T14:05:35","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T12:05:35","slug":"partea-plina-a-paharului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/?p=164","title":{"rendered":"Partea plin\u0103 a paharului"},"content":{"rendered":"

De cele mai multe ori c\u00e2nd am auzit „povestea” cu partea plin\u0103 \u0219i cea goal\u0103 a paharului am privit-o ca un cli\u0219eu pe care mul\u021bi \u00eel folosesc \u00een conversa\u021bii ca s\u0103 omoare timpul. \u0218i chiar a\u0219a \u0219i este. Recent am realizat \u00eens\u0103 c\u0103 aceast\u0103 simpl\u0103 \u0219i banal\u0103 analogie exemplific\u0103 \u00eentr-un mod plastic \u0219i ideal pe cel fericit \u0219i pe cel nefericit. \u0218i \u00een acela\u0219i timp arat\u0103 \u00een mod clar de ce anume e fericit cel fericit \u0219i de ce este nefericit cel nefericit.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\"Optimistul este evident cel care vede partea plin\u0103 a paharului \u0219i pesimistul pe cea goal\u0103. Ce e mai dr\u0103gu\u021b la aceast\u0103 analogie e tocmai partea cu „v\u0103zutul<\/u>” pe care nu mul\u021bi ajung s-o \u00een\u021beleag\u0103, dar care e de fapt chiar esen\u021ba ei.<\/p>\n

Cic\u0103 tr\u0103ia odat\u0103 o femeie care tot timpul era trist\u0103 \u0219i pl\u00e2ngea, motiv pentru care a fost poreclit\u0103 „femeia care pl\u00e2nge”. \u00centr-o zi cuiva i s-a f\u0103cut mil\u0103 de ea \u0219i a \u00eentrebat-o de ce e trist\u0103 \u0219i nefericit\u0103 mereu, iar ea \u0219i-a \u00eenceput povestea. Cum c\u0103 avea doi fii \u0219i am\u00e2ndoi aveau c\u00e2te un magazin, unul de pantofi \u0219i unul de umbrele. Astfel, zicea femeia, c\u00e2nd era timp frumos \u0219i soare nu mergea afacerea celui cu umbrele, iar c\u00e2nd era ploaie nu mergea afacerea celui cu pantofi. A\u0219a c\u0103 femeia avea motive s\u0103 fie \u00eengrijorat\u0103 \u0219i nefericit\u0103 indiferent de vreme. Omul i-a sugerat \u00eens\u0103 s\u0103 vad\u0103 partea bun\u0103 a lucrurilor, anume c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd e soare \u0219i frumos merge afacerea celui cu pantofi, iar c\u00e2nd plou\u0103 merge afacerea celui cu umbrele. Femeia a acceptat \u0219i de atunci a fost denumit\u0103 „femeia care r\u00e2de” c\u0103ci era vesel\u0103 \u0219i fericit\u0103 tot timpul.<\/p>\n

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Utilitatea unui pahar st\u0103 \u00een partea goal\u0103 a acestuia.<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n

Proverb Zen<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Mul\u021bi vor spune c\u0103 lucrurile \u00een via\u021b\u0103 nu sunt la fel de simple \u0219i au dreptate, dar nu e nimeni vinovat pentru modul \u00een care vedem lucrurile, dec\u00e2t noi \u00een\u0219ine. \u00centr-o zi am auzit pe cineva \u00eentreb\u00e2nd intrigat de ce s-au g\u00e2ndit unii s\u0103 pun\u0103 un gard de beton \u00eenalt de 2m \u00een jurul unui teren plin cu scaie\u021bi, iar eu i-am r\u0103spuns f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc: „ca s\u0103 ai peste ce s\u0103ri”. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

Via\u021ba e plin\u0103 de evenimente dintre cele mai diverse, at\u00e2t de diverse \u00eenc\u00e2t am ajuns s\u0103 fiu convins c\u0103 nu evenimentele conteaz\u0103 ci atitudinea noastr\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de ele. \u0218i chiar a\u0219a \u0219i este. Orice eveniment are p\u0103r\u021bi bune \u0219i rele. Dac\u0103 noi nu le vedem pe am\u00e2ndou\u0103 nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 ele nu exist\u0103. Dac\u0103 ne \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021b\u00e2n\u0103m s\u0103 vedem doar partea goal\u0103 a paharului, la fel, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 o parte plin\u0103.<\/p>\n

Eu mereu am \u00eencercat s\u0103-i mul\u021bumesc pe to\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103-i ajut pe to\u021bi s\u0103 fie ferici\u021bi. Am realizat \u00eens\u0103 c\u0103 nici dac\u0103 a\u0219 avea o iubire \u0219i o perfec\u021biune dumnezeiasc\u0103 ca a lui Iisus tot n-a\u0219 reu\u0219i performan\u021ba asta, c\u0103ci mereu va fi cineva incapabil s\u0103 vad\u0103 frumosul, binele \u0219i lumina chiar \u0219i acolo unde acestea str\u0103lucesc \u00een toat\u0103 splendoarea lor.<\/p>\n

\u0218i aici e \u0219i \u0219mecheria dr\u0103gu\u021b\u0103 din aceast\u0103 analogie. Cea cu „v\u0103zutul<\/u>„. Pentru cei capabili s\u0103 o vad\u0103<\/u> e clar ca lumina zilei c\u0103 pentru a fi ferici\u021bi trebuie s\u0103 fim capabili s\u0103 vedem partea bun\u0103 a vie\u021bii. \u0218i da, poate unii avem nevoie de antrenament sau de ajutor ca s\u0103 nu vedem gardurile drept ziduri ce trebuie sparte sau copacii drept mori de v\u00e2nt care trebuie dobor\u00e2te, \u00eens\u0103 nimeni nu s-a n\u0103scut \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat. \u0218i pentru cei ce n-a\u021bi \u00een\u021beles cele trei<\/u> articole cu fericirea (I<\/a>, II<\/a>, III<\/a>), poate ve\u021bi pricepe acuma de ce am spus c\u0103 mul\u021bumirea este esen\u021bial\u0103. \ud83d\ude09<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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