{"id":138,"date":"2012-12-03T17:00:30","date_gmt":"2012-12-03T15:00:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.wordpress.com\/?p=138"},"modified":"2022-03-02T17:38:15","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T15:38:15","slug":"si-totusi-ce-este-iubirea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/?p=138","title":{"rendered":"\u0218i totu\u0219i&#8230; ce este iubirea?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u0218ti\u021bi ce-am descoperit recent? C\u0103 suntem semidoc\u021bi \u00een majoritatea domeniilor. Adic\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 mergem doar ca s\u0103 nu c\u0103dem \u00een \u0219an\u021buri, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 vorbim doar p\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219tim s\u0103 spunem ce ne doare, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 privim doar c\u00e2t s\u0103 vedem pe unde mergem \u0219i multe altele.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0218i uite a\u0219a \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m din toate at\u00e2t c\u00e2t consider\u0103m c\u0103 avem nevoie. \u0218i ne folosim de ele tot at\u00e2t. Parc\u0103 am vrea s\u0103 termin\u0103m de \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat \u00eentreg universul \u0219i \u00een aceast\u0103 curs\u0103 contra-cronometru uit\u0103m pentru ce le \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m.<\/p>\n<p>Iubirea este \u0219i ea printre aceste lucruri \u00eenv\u0103\u021bate &#8222;din mers&#8221; \u0219i pe jum\u0103tate. Chiar \u0219i cel ce umbl\u0103 s-o aprofundeze uit\u0103 de multe ori c\u0103 iubirea este o art\u0103 ce trebuie tr\u0103it\u0103 \u0219i nu teoretizat\u0103. \u0218i nu pentru c\u0103 e uituc, ci pentru c\u0103 e obi\u0219nuit ca s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be din experien\u021be foarte pu\u021bin \u0219i s\u0103 mearg\u0103 c\u00e2t mai repede \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 mergem s\u0103 facem cump\u0103r\u0103turi ne vom lovi de c\u00e2teva zeci de obi\u0219nuin\u021be \u00een doar c\u00e2teva minute. Dar cea care e mai relevant\u0103 acum, e c\u0103 majoritatea \u00eenc\u0103 atribuie banilor valorile lor vechi, de\u0219i e evident pentru to\u021bi c\u0103 acestea s-au schimbat de ani de zile. La fel facem cu toate celelalte lucruri, le \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m p\u00e2n\u0103 la gradul de obi\u0219nuin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i apoi trecem mai departe. Dac\u0103 ne-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 mergem str\u00e2mb vom merge la fel mereu, dac\u0103 ne-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 scriem neinteligibil e foarte probabil s\u0103 nu mai folosim scrisul de m\u00e2n\u0103 ca s\u0103 ne facem \u00een\u021bele\u0219i. \u0218i multe multe altele, printre care evident \u0219i sentimentele noastre.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218tim s\u0103 ne ata\u0219\u0103m de tot ce ne e drag fiindc\u0103 a\u0219a am fost \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 facem. \u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 pl\u00e2ngem c\u00e2nd pierdem lucruri dragi sau s\u0103 petrecem c\u00e2nd le ob\u021binem fiindc\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea face la fel \u00een astfel de momente. \u00cenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 ne \u00eentrist\u0103m c\u00e2nd primim o palm\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m dac\u0103 primim cadouri. Dar \u00eentotdeauna nu punem la \u00eendoial\u0103 c\u0103 ceea ce sim\u021bim s-ar putea s\u0103 fie rezultatul lec\u021biilor trecute ne\u00eenv\u0103\u021bate sau \u00eenv\u0103\u021bate doar pe jum\u0103tate.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2871 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/definitie-300x225.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/definitie-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/definitie.png 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 cum am \u00eenceput s\u0103 spun, iubirea este o art\u0103. Iar ca \u0219i \u00een orice art\u0103, nu po\u021bi spune c\u0103 cineva nu o are doar pentru c\u0103 nu a ajuns maestru. Astfel, dac\u0103 cineva nu cunoa\u0219te dec\u00e2t ata\u0219amentul nu poate fi etichetat c\u0103 nu \u0219tie s\u0103 iubeasc\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 se poate spune c\u0103 mai are multe de \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat.<\/p>\n<p>Din cauza acestui fenomen, ne\u00een\u021belegerile datorate obi\u0219nuin\u021bei gr\u0103bite de a eticheta pe cineva dup\u0103 ce spune sunt foarte frecvente. \u0218i ne-am cam obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 spunem &#8222;te iubesc&#8221; indiferent de culoarea acesteia, de\u0219i pentru unii iubirea e \u00een majoritate siguran\u021b\u0103, iar pentru al\u021bii e atrac\u021bie erotic\u0103. La fel ea poate fi dorin\u021b\u0103 de a conduce, dorin\u021b\u0103 de a d\u0103rui etc. Iar pentru unii iubirea poate \u00eenseamna chiar totul.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00cen alt\u0103 ordine de idei, iubirea este un singur sentiment care poate lua o multitudine de culori \u00een func\u021bie de situa\u021bie. Dar ceea ce se \u0219tie sigur despre ea, cu adev\u0103rat, e faptul c\u0103 poate cre\u0219te infinit de mult. C\u0103ci, chiar \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd crede\u021bi c\u0103 a\u021bi atins punctul culminant, apare mereu oportunitatea de a v\u0103 dep\u0103\u0219i limitele proprii.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>O scurt\u0103 defini\u021bie a iubirii.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2871,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,57],"tags":[32],"class_list":["post-138","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-si-totusi-iubirea","category-speciale","tag-iubirea"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/definitie.png","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/138","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=138"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/138\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2873,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/138\/revisions\/2873"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2871"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=138"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=138"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=138"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}