{"id":136,"date":"2012-10-12T22:45:34","date_gmt":"2012-10-12T19:45:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.wordpress.com\/?p=136"},"modified":"2022-03-02T17:55:34","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T15:55:34","slug":"relatia-perfecta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/?p=136","title":{"rendered":"Rela\u021bia perfect\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"

Majoritatea oamenilor sunt infecta\u021bi de \u201evirusul\u201c rela\u021biilor \u0219i tot ceea ce fac trece prin prisma acestuia. Tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o lume \u00een care dac\u0103 nu-l iei \u00een considerare pe cel de l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine e\u0219ti r\u0103u, iar dac\u0103 \u00eel iei \u00een considerare \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 e\u0219ti bun. O lume \u00een care dac\u0103 faci ce fac ceilal\u021bi e\u0219ti ok, iar dac\u0103 nu atunci e\u0219ti nonconformist. O lume care se aranjeaz\u0103 ore \u00eentregi doar pentru o \u00eent\u00e2lnire. O lume care caut\u0103 rela\u021bia perfect\u0103 prin fiecare por al pielii \u0219i prin fiecare respira\u021bie pe care o are. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Suntem mai mereu \u00een c\u0103utare de \u201e\u00eent\u00e2lniri\u201c: la o cafea, la o bere, la o \u021bigar\u0103. Tot ce facem trebuie s\u0103 fie \u0219i este parc\u0103 realizat pentru \u00eent\u00e2lnirea cu restul lumii. Tr\u0103im parc\u0103 doar pentru apari\u021bia noastr\u0103 pe scena acestei societ\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n

\"\"M\u0103 uitam recent la un film \u0219i am realizat c\u0103 mai to\u021bi caut\u0103 s\u0103 se cupleze. Lumea e plin\u0103 de \u201elec\u021bii de cuplat\u201c \u0219i de \u201esfaturi pentru ag\u0103\u021bat\u201c. La orice col\u021b de strad\u0103 \u021bi se spune \u0219i \u021bi se arat\u0103 cum trebuie sau cum nu trebuie s\u0103 te compor\u021bi dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 ai parte de o rela\u021bie cu o persoan\u0103 de sex opus (\u0219i nu numai) sau altfel spus cum s\u0103 ai parte de sex.<\/p>\n

Da, lumea e orientat\u0103 preponderent sexual \u0219i de\u0219i scoate pe gur\u0103 cuvinte precum \u201ete iubesc\u201c, n-are absolut nici o tangen\u021b\u0103 cu acest subiect. Suntem toat\u0103 via\u021ba \u00een c\u0103utarea rela\u021biei perfecte \u0219i chiar dac\u0103 o g\u0103sim, gust\u0103m pu\u021bin din ea \u0219i apoi trecem s\u0103 c\u0103ut\u0103m alta. Suntem pur \u0219i simplu p\u0103trun\u0219i de \u201evirusul\u201c rela\u021biilor at\u00e2t de mult \u00eenc\u00e2t c\u0103s\u0103toria a devenit o necesitate pentru cei care n-au noroc la ag\u0103\u021bat \u0219i o povar\u0103 pentru cei implica\u021bi \u00een una.<\/p>\n

Sincer s\u0103 fiu n-ar fi nimic \u00een neregul\u0103 dac\u0103 lumea ar c\u0103uta ce-\u0219i dore\u0219te \u0219i viceversa (s\u0103-\u0219i doreasc\u0103 ce caut\u0103). Dar ei caut\u0103 rela\u021bia perfect\u0103 \u0219i atunci c\u00e2nd apare se oftic\u0103 c\u0103 nu e iubirea perfect\u0103. E ca \u0219i cum ai c\u0103uta arm\u0103sari dar te a\u0219tep\u021bi s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti unicorni. Pentru unii e cu at\u00e2t mai dificil s\u0103 fac\u0103 diferen\u021ba cu c\u00e2t cele dou\u0103 no\u021biuni au acela\u0219i sens pentru ei. C\u0103ci rela\u021bia perfect\u0103 e \u00een mintea lor identic\u0103 cu iubirea perfect\u0103… \u0219i de\u0219i prima se refer\u0103 strict la exterior \u0219i a doua doar la ceva interior, ei refuz\u0103 totu\u0219i s\u0103 vad\u0103 vreo diferen\u021b\u0103 \u00eentre ele.<\/p>\n

Ca \u0219i concluzie, consider c\u0103 dac\u0103 omul are preten\u021bia la o c\u0103s\u0103torie perfect\u0103, atunci s\u0103 nu caute tehnici de ag\u0103\u021bat (c\u0103ci partenera\/partenerul de via\u021b\u0103 nu e o prad\u0103 de v\u00e2n\u0103tor) \u0219i nici metode de armonizare a rela\u021biei de cuplu (c\u0103ci c\u0103snicia nu e gr\u0103dini\u021b\u0103 pentru adul\u021bi). Dac\u0103 vre\u021bi o c\u0103snicie real\u0103 atunci \u00eenceta\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi cum s\u0103 v\u0103 purta\u021bi cu ea\/el \u0219i \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi oameni buni s\u0103 iubi\u021bi!!!
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Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 cau\u021bi rela\u021bia perfect\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2878,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,57],"tags":[31,41],"class_list":["post-136","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-si-totusi-iubirea","category-speciale","tag-iubire-perfecta","tag-relatie-perfecta"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/10\/relatie.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/136","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=136"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/136\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2880,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/136\/revisions\/2880"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2878"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=136"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=136"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=136"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}