{"id":1337,"date":"2013-03-21T20:00:20","date_gmt":"2013-03-21T18:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.wordpress.com\/?p=1337"},"modified":"2022-03-01T17:44:45","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T15:44:45","slug":"iubirea-si-iertarea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/?p=1337","title":{"rendered":"Iubirea \u0219i iertarea"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u0218ti\u021bi cum e omul c\u00e2nd stric\u0103 ceva ce-i pl\u0103cea tare-tare-tare, face tot posibilul s\u0103-l repare. Mno, cam a\u0219a-i \u0219i cu iertarea la unii. La al\u021bii iertarea e ca un ultimatum de genul „te iert, dar nu te uit”. \u0102\u0219tia-s din gr\u0103mada celor pentru care, iubirea fiind o afacere, consider\u0103 util s\u0103-i mai dea o \u0219ans\u0103 celui care le-a gre\u0219it. O a treia categorie, foarte rar\u0103, sunt aceia la care iubirea \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u00een acela\u0219i timp iertare \u0219i viceversa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\"Eu am trecut prin toate categoriile; c\u00e2nd vroiam s\u0103 repar ce-am stricat cer\u0219eam iertarea de parc\u0103 lumea s-ar sf\u00e2r\u0219i \u00een lipsa ei; c\u00e2nd am fost \u00een cealalt\u0103 extrem\u0103, m\u0103 foloseam de prima ocazie ca s\u0103-i „ard una” drept r\u0103zbunare. Acuma sunt \u00een perioada de tranzi\u021bie c\u0103tre cea din urm\u0103 categorie, adic\u0103 \u00eencerc s\u0103 \u00eempac \u0219i capra \u0219i varza \u0219i lupu’ \u0219i ciobanu’.<\/p>\n

Iisus vorbea \u0219i El de \u00eentoarcerea obrazului, de binecuv\u00e2ntarea du\u0219manilor sau a celor ce ne blesteam\u0103; altfel spus, de iertarea cuiva \u00eenainte chiar de-a ne fi gre\u0219it, tocmai pentru c\u0103 iubirea \u0219i iertarea sunt inseparabile. O iubire necondi\u021bionat\u0103 \u0219i total\u0103 poate ierta toate gre\u0219elile \u00eenainte ca acestea s\u0103 fi fost f\u0103cute tocmai pentru c\u0103 ea e bazat\u0103 pe d\u0103ruire. Atunci c\u00e2nd te preocup\u0103 doar fericirea persoanei iubite, iertarea e inclus\u0103 ca un bonus, c\u0103ci indiferent ce ar face acel om tu urm\u0103re\u0219ti doar fericirea lui.<\/p>\n

Am auzit undeva c\u0103 iertarea o poate oferi doar Dumnezeu, omul put\u00e2nd fi doar un receptor sau un releu pentru ea. Motiv pentru care \u0219i Iisus s-a rugat pentru iertarea celor ce L-au r\u0103stignit. De aici se poate deduce pentru cei cu bun sim\u021b, de ce iubirea este \u0219i ea considerat\u0103 adesea un dar de la Dumnezeu.<\/p>\n

Problema apare c\u00e2nd condi\u021bion\u0103m iubirea \u0219i o d\u0103ruim doar dac\u0103 lumea ne face pe plac, \u00een caz contrar ne sup\u0103r\u0103m \u0219i ne str\u00e2mb\u0103m ca ni\u0219te copii, r\u0103m\u00e2n\u00e2nd sup\u0103ra\u021bi uneori zile \u00een \u0219ir. \u00cen realitate, tot ce facem e s\u0103 ne bloc\u0103m sufletul s\u0103 transmit\u0103 mai departe aceast\u0103 iubire. Astfel, fiind incapabili s\u0103 iert\u0103m, ne \u00eenchidem \u0219i mai mult \u0219i pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce devenim imuni la iubirea divin\u0103, ne este \u0219i mai greu s\u0103-i iert\u0103m pe cei ce ne gre\u0219esc, ajung\u00e2nd \u00een final complet lipsi\u021bi de capacitatea de a ierta.<\/p>\n

Eu personal am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat c\u0103 toate st\u0103rile mele se nasc, tr\u0103iesc \u0219i mor \u00een mine \u00eensumi, motiv pentru care sup\u0103rarea nu are via\u021b\u0103 lung\u0103; trebuie s\u0103 fac eforturi serioase dac\u0103 vreau s\u0103 o men\u021bin mai multe ore. Astfel, la ora actual\u0103 du\u0219manii mei \u00eemi sunt necunoscu\u021bi, c\u0103ci doar ei nutresc sentimente negative fa\u021b\u0103 de mine. Uneori m\u0103 uime\u0219te s\u0103 aflu c\u0103 exist\u0103 oameni care pot s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 sup\u0103ra\u021bi pe cineva mai mult de o zi.<\/p>\n

Sincer, eu personal m\u0103 \u00eendoiesc c\u0103 a\u0219 putea \u00eentoarce cel\u0103lalt obraz imediat dup\u0103 ce primesc o palm\u0103, dar cu siguran\u021b\u0103 dac\u0103 ar reveni din nou la mine dup\u0103 acel eveniment l-a\u0219 \u00eentreba z\u00e2mbind dac\u0103 a venit s\u0103-mi mai dea una \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

Voi cum reac\u021biona\u021bi la cineva care v\u0103 gre\u0219e\u0219te cu ceva?… \u00eel\/o ierta\u021bi sau \u021bine\u021bi sup\u0103rarea \u00een voi p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i cere iertare \u00een genunchi?<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Despre iertare.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2788,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[27,30],"class_list":["post-1337","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-si-totusi-iubirea","tag-iertare","tag-iubire"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/03\/iertare.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1337","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1337"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1337\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2789,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1337\/revisions\/2789"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2788"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1337"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1337"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1337"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}