{"id":104,"date":"2012-07-02T12:00:15","date_gmt":"2012-07-02T09:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.wordpress.com\/?p=94"},"modified":"2022-03-02T13:58:28","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T11:58:28","slug":"fericire-ii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/?p=104","title":{"rendered":"Fericirea (II)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Educa\u021bia de orice natur\u0103 poate fi re-orientat\u0103, punctele de vedere se pot modifica, iar obi\u0219nuin\u021bele se pot \u00eenlocui cu altele… dac\u0103 toate astea sunt posibile v\u0103 pute\u021bi \u00eentreba pe bun\u0103 dreptate de ce nu sunte\u021bi fericit 24 de ore pe zi, \u0219apte zile pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cel care caut\u0103 m\u00e2ncare g\u0103se\u0219te m\u00e2ncare. Cel ce caut\u0103 bani, \u00eei g\u0103se\u0219te. Oricine caut\u0103 ceva, \u00eel va g\u0103si mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu. Chiar \u0219i cel ce caut\u0103 mizeria \u0219i ura \u00ee\u0219i atinge scopul. Deci, de ce nu ar g\u0103si omul fericirea dac\u0103 o caut\u0103?<\/p>\n

„Suntem ceea ce facem \u00een mod repetat. De aceea, excelen\u021ba nu este un act, ci un mod de via\u021b\u0103” spunea Aristotel. La fel au spus-o \u0219i al\u021bii de-a lungul timpului \u00een diverse forme. Legea atrac\u021biei sau legea rezonan\u021bei exprim\u0103 \u00een alte cuvinte ceea ce Iisus a spus foarte clar: „cere \u0219i \u021bi se va da, bate \u0219i \u021bi se va deschide, caut\u0103 \u0219i vei g\u0103si”. Tot El a spus c\u0103 celui ce are i se va mai da, iar celui ce nu are i se va lua \u0219i ceea ce are… nu \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103tor pe maestru \u00eel face practica. Lucrurile asem\u0103n\u0103toare tind s\u0103 se adune, iar lucrurile care se adun\u0103 se \u00eenmul\u021besc… \u0219i cu c\u00e2t sunt mai multe cu at\u00e2t atrag mai mult lucruri de acela\u0219i fel \u0219i ajung s\u0103 se multiplice singure.<\/p>\n

\"\"Cu fericirea e la fel, cu c\u00e2t e\u0219ti mai fericit (sau mai nefericit) cu at\u00e2t devii pe zi ce trece mai fericit (ori mai nefericit)… lucrurile m\u0103runte care te fac fericit (ori nefericit) tind s\u0103 se \u00eenmul\u021beasc\u0103 \u0219i cu c\u00e2t sunt mai multe cu at\u00e2t se \u00eenmul\u021besc mai repede… DAR (repet DAR) nu lucrurile \u00een sine ne m\u0103resc fericirea, nu acumularea lucrurilor sau repetarea ac\u021biunilor care ne fac ferici\u021bi (ori neferici\u021bi) contribuie la amplificarea fericirii (sau nefericirii) noastre, ci atitudinea noastr\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de ele.<\/p>\n

Noi suntem cei ce dict\u0103m dac\u0103 un lucru, o ac\u021biune sau un eveniment ne fac ori ba ferici\u021bi… c\u0103ci nu acestea sunt importante, ci atitudinea noastr\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de ele. Altfel spus, mul\u021bumirea noastr\u0103 e cea care contribuie la fericirea noastr\u0103… dac\u0103 suntem mul\u021bumi\u021bi cu ceea ce avem, suntem \u0219i ferici\u021bi… dar noi suntem neferici\u021bi mai tot timpul, tocmai fiindc\u0103 nu suntem mul\u021bumi\u021bi niciodat\u0103… mereu vrem altceva, uit\u00e2nd s\u0103 fim mul\u021bumi\u021bi cu ce avem… \u0219i, inevitabil, mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu, realiz\u0103m c\u0103 nimic nu ne mai mul\u021bume\u0219te… ne blaz\u0103m \u0219i ne plictisim foarte repede, lucru care se amplific\u0103 \u00eentr-un mod at\u00e2t de alarmant \u00eenc\u00e2t \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nim emo\u021bional la nici 25 de ani, devenind incapabili s\u0103 mai sim\u021bim bucuria ori fericirea adev\u0103rat\u0103.<\/p>\n

Dar dup\u0103 cum spuneam la \u00eenceput, toate se pot modifica, inclusiv modul nostru de a aborda realitatea care ne \u00eenconjoar\u0103, c\u0103ci toate exist\u0103 \u0219i se manifest\u0103 din cauza acestuia. Dac\u0103 suntem convin\u0219i c\u0103 via\u021ba este o lupt\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 via\u021ba e dur\u0103 \u0219i foarte grea, atunci chiar a\u0219a este.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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