{"id":103,"date":"2012-06-24T21:37:09","date_gmt":"2012-06-24T18:37:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.wordpress.com\/?p=90"},"modified":"2022-03-02T13:13:36","modified_gmt":"2022-03-02T11:13:36","slug":"fericirea-i","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/?p=103","title":{"rendered":"Fericirea (I)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Ce este fericirea? Fericirea este acel ceva pe care to\u021bi ar vrea s\u0103-l aib\u0103, dar nimeni (sau aproape nimeni) nu-l caut\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O s\u0103 spune\u021bi c\u0103 e o minciun\u0103, fiindc\u0103 tot ce face\u021bi are ca scop fericirea voastr\u0103. Da, are ca scop s\u0103 v\u0103 fac\u0103 ferici\u021bi, dar asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 voi ave\u021bi ca scop fericirea voastr\u0103. Dac\u0103 considera\u021bi c\u0103 banii v\u0103 pot face ferici\u021bi, nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 ave\u021bi ca scop fericirea, ci banii. La fel, dac\u0103 o familie sau o cas\u0103 v\u0103 pot face ferici\u021bi, o s\u0103 v\u0103 lua\u021bi familia sau casa drept scopuri, nu fericirea. Astfel, nimeni nu caut\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat fericirea, ci caut\u0103 diverse lucruri pe care ei consider\u0103 c\u0103-i fac ferici\u021bi. \u0218i \u00een goana dup\u0103 miile de lucruri pe care ajung s\u0103 \u0219i le doreasc\u0103, oamenii uit\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i mai doreasc\u0103 fericirea \u0219i se implic\u0103 at\u00e2t de mult emo\u021bional \u0219i psihic \u00een ob\u021binerea miilor de lucruri pe care le doresc, \u00eenc\u00e2t ob\u021binerea unora din ele abia le ofer\u0103 motiva\u021bia de a continua s\u0103 le caute \u0219i pe restul, \u00eens\u0103 nicidecum fericirea r\u00e2vnit\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2836 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/fericire1-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/fericire1-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/fericire1.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>\u0218i uite a\u0219a oamenii se focalizeaz\u0103 pe lucruri lipsite de importan\u021b\u0103, lucruri care ajung s\u0103 le produc\u0103 nelini\u0219ti, dureri de cap, insomnii \u0219i nelipsitul stres. Azi suntem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi cum s\u0103 ne lupt\u0103m pentru ceea ce ne dorim, cum s\u0103 d\u0103m din coate pentru a ob\u021bine o pozi\u021bie favorabil\u0103 \u0219i binen\u021beles cum s\u0103 facem fa\u021b\u0103 nelini\u0219tilor, durerilor de cap, insomniilor \u0219i stresului&#8230; dar mai nimeni nu te \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 fi fericit&#8230; asta e ca \u0219i cum ai fi \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 te fere\u0219ti de bombele inamice \u00een timp ce \u00eencerci s\u0103-l bombardezi, \u00een loc s\u0103 fi \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 faci pace ca s\u0103 nu trebuiasc\u0103 s\u0103 te fere\u0219ti de bombe.<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i atunci v\u0103 pun o \u00eentrebare de bun sim\u021b: cum s\u0103 fi fericit dac\u0103 mereu e\u0219ti focalizat pe mii de lucruri care \u00ee\u021bi produc mai mult\u0103 nefericire dec\u00e2t \u00eentreaga cantitate de fericire pe care \u021bi-ai imaginat vreodat\u0103 c\u0103 o po\u021bi avea?&#8230; v\u0103 spun eu: nu po\u021bi! \u0218i asta pentru simplul fapt c\u0103 nu v\u0103 dori\u021bi fericirea.<\/p>\n<p>Cei care-\u0219i doresc s\u0103 fie ferici\u021bi \u0219i CAUT\u0102 S\u0102 AJUNG\u0102 astfel, \u0219tiu c\u0103 fericirea e \u00een interior \u0219i deci nu are nevoie de modelarea exteriorului pentru a o produce. C\u0103ldura soarelui de var\u0103 nu are nici o vin\u0103 pentru nefericirea ta, c\u0103ci tu e\u0219ti cel care d\u0103 importan\u021b\u0103 acestui fapt \u0219i o prive\u0219te astfel. La fel, orice experien\u021b\u0103 este doar o experien\u021b\u0103, noi suntem cei care \u00eei atribuim emo\u021bii \u0219i personalitate (de cele mai multe ori negative). Cine ne opre\u0219te s\u0103 ne bucur\u0103m de toate experien\u021bele prin care trecem?&#8230; nimeni \u00een afar\u0103 de noi \u00een\u0219ine.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E drept c\u0103 de mici suntem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 depindem de anumite lucruri (m\u00e2ncare, ap\u0103, somn, etc) \u0219i c\u0103 lipsa acestora trebuie s\u0103 ne produc\u0103 nefericire, dar nu e obligatoriu s\u0103 fie astfel. Suntem capabili s\u0103 ne reeduc\u0103m \u00een a\u0219a fel \u00eenc\u00e2t toate nevoile s\u0103 nu ne mai fac\u0103 neferici\u021bi, c\u0103ci at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t fericirea e \u00een noi \u0219i nu \u00een afara noastr\u0103 avem toat\u0103 puterea de a o face s\u0103 se manifeste.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despre fericirea ca \u021bel.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2836,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,58],"tags":[25,36,37,40,43],"class_list":["post-103","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diverse","category-fericire","tag-fericire","tag-nefericire","tag-optimism","tag-pesimism","tag-stres","post_format-post-format-standard"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/06\/fericire1.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=103"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2839,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/103\/revisions\/2839"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2836"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=103"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=103"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sitotusiiubirea.armonios.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=103"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}